Saturday, August 7, 2010

Fasting Month

The best month ever.I really like Ramadhan because when it is Ramadhan,i can see that people's lifestyle will change.Not only the muslims,but also people of other religion.Interesting right?
People will get up early in the morning before Subuh to fill in the tummy with some food as the preparation for the day.As early as 4 am.But to some,they prefer to do this 'Sahur' thing even earlier.Means,before they get to sleep like at 12 midnight or at 1 am or 2 am.
Another thing about Ramadhan is,you can see 'Pasar Malam' every single day,starting at 4pm up until the time to break fast.This pasar malam is called 'Bazar Ramadhan' and seriously,i really love to see people buying food and drinks at Bazar.Happening!.Not just the people,i do also love to see the food and drinks there!yummy and very attempting.There are a lot of choices and look so damn delicious.
But,unfortunately,based on my own experience,i had this few times of buying food that looked so good but actually they were not.Same went with the drinks.Looked so fresh but they were not.I can understand that because some people go for the barakah but a lot of people go for the profit..that's life.
Yeah,another thing about Ramadhan is traffic jam!Yup,due to people rushing back to their homes before Maghrib and also due to the Bazar Ramadhan.Seriously,packed!
At night is another thing,people will go to the nearest mosque or surau to perform Solat Terawih.The solat will done usually at 10 pm by most.That is a very nice thing to see actually.Very calming and soothing.Yup,the sweetest thing about Ramadhan is the solat terawih..Something that you do to cleanse your soul and mind..plus,to be rewarded with a lot of promises from Allah..Yup,it is the best part of Ramadhan..

Sunday, May 9, 2010

Are they enough?

I went out with my friends few days back and we passed a cemetery.The cemetery located just next to the road that we took that day.I looked at the cemetery and that question came into my mind..again.Wanna know what was it?Sure.I was wondering, if we die, will there be enough space for everyone?
Let say that there is no more space left to bury the body,then where will the body goes to?As we all know, the price of a piece of land nowadays is very high and plus, most of the lands are meant for development.More houses,more commercial areas and more shopping malls.Then what will happen if there is no more place left to bury our bodies?
I'm worried and feel like there is something should be done in order to avoid such thing to happen. What is the solution for this problem?Yup, this might not happen now,but it will surely do later.Maybe soon.Therefore,we should be worried upon this matter and look for the best solution.We need more lands and the authority should do something about it as soon as possible.If not, we will end up paying thousands bucks just to reserve a space for our body when we die later.

Friday, April 23, 2010

i am fat..so?

i am fat,so what is the problem with that?

Being fat is something that is not acceptable to some people.In Malaysia, fat seems like carrying the same meaning as ugly.That's a harsh one but don't tell me that you (some of you) are not agree with the fact that fat is ugly.

If being fat is alright,then why there are so many slimming products in the market?Yes, some will say that those products are for healthy reason.But i never seen any commercial advertisement that says the slimming product is for you to lose some kilos and be healthy.What i've seen most is, these people go for the products for other reasons: to look better and to boost the confidence(and also to fit into smaller size jeans!)

Is it true that being fat makes your look ugly and turn you down?If the answer is yes,then it is true then that being fat is not acceptable in Malaysia.If not,then i am wrong.Perhaps, being fat is acceptable in Malaysia.But then,why i always heard these things:

1- The boyfriend ask his girfriend to lose some kilos.

2- To be a successful celebrity( actor,singer, etc), you must have the package-good looking, talented and thin.At least you are wearing XL and not XXL.

3- To look good on your wedding day, lose some kilos!

4- Avoid from wearing these colors- yellow,green,orange and some other soft colors like baby blue. They make you look fat!.Huh?

5- If you are fat, nobody wants to marry you..ooouch!


Therefore,i think i am right at saying being fat is not acceptable.It is a cruel fact but it is so true.
Size does matter then

Wednesday, March 31, 2010

How to make girls happy?

Is it so hard to please a lady?

We're ladies are not that hard to be pleased,but guys are the one who dont really know how to do it.But the truth is,it is our faults.Why?because we always thought that guys knew it all,when the real thing is,they are not!

Now,let's remove that kind of thought from our minds ladies.We must let them know so that,they know.As simple as that!

Guys,here are the list of things that gonna make us happy and please,read it:

1. Give us chocolate.We never say no to chocolate,even when we are on diet!

2. Flowers..especially roses,always make us feel good.I know that some of you might think that flowers are kind of old school things ,but trust me,those flowers you gave us 6 months ago,even they are all dead now,are still in our rooms!

3. Offer to buy us something or to pay for the meals.Guys,eventhough it just an offer,we are really happy to hear that rather that you tell us : Babe,can you pay for it first?I don't bring enough money..~Alright,perhaps you are broke,but if that so,then do something about it.Make sure you have the money,then only give us a call and ask us to go out with you.If not,then don't.It's not that we want you to pay for everything,it just that we don't want you to act as if you have the money,but the truth is,you are not.Especially,on the 1st date!

4. Call us and talk to us,even it takes only 5 minutes!.Seriously,when you call us,we are really,really and really happy- no matter what the conversation is all about.Even when you give us that call just because you wanna say that you are really mad at your boss,that makes us happy actually.Weird but it's so true guys.

5. Don't have enough credit to give us a call?(for those who are using prepaid),it's ok,you can always make us happy by texting us.Yup,even if it just a simple text,we are happy to receive one.

6. Give us a smile.Do you know that we ladies always try our best to put a smile on our faces even when we are really in a very bad mood?That's us.We always do that and we really hope that guys do the same.We are happy to see you smiling back at us!If you are a stranger,it's never wrong for you to give us a smile.We are happy to see that smile,rather that you look at us,with that blur face.We hate it!

7. Be nice.We are happy when you treat us nicely.You guys must be gentle with us.Be a gentleman! We are ladies and we are soft hearted.Yes we are,eventhough we look so independent and masculine!.Be nice with us and we are really happy for that.

8. Say good things about things we like.Wanna example here?Sure.When we say that we like to wear pink stuff,just say" owh,nice color."-even you dont like it at all because to you,pink is too girlish.Do we ever bother when u always wear black,blue and red?We never bother!.Therefore,do make us happy by say good things about things we like.Thank you.

9. Make us happy by being good with our families and friends.We love them,way before we met you.They will always be forever in our hearts.Then,how on earth we gonna be happy when you say bad things about them or have no respect on them?If you really hate them,please dont say it because,that's gonna really hurt our feelings.Really,really,really hurt!

10.Finally,make us happy by giving us love.Nothing more than this can make us so gladly happy.If you sincerely love us,that's gonna make us really,really and really happy.Don't worry,we ladies do know when you really love us and when you are not.Sometimes,we know that you don't love us,but we still hanging on because we wanna give you a second chance(sometimes,we give you more and more).But then,when it's still not love that you are giving us,we will move back and find true love somewhere else.Hey,we are ladies and we are meant to be loved.

Alright guys,hope that by now you know,what can make us happy and how easy it is to do so.There's nothing much here.There's only 10 of them.Trust me,if you manage to do all these, you will know that, we are not that complicated.

Guys, when we ladies are happy,you'll be 10 times happier than we are.Yup,10 times happier.Well,it's up to you now.It's all definitely depend on you.

Thursday, February 25, 2010

cheat and you'll pass your exam

They peek friend's answers,bring in notes,discuss on the questions, passing papers,text using mobile phone, go out (as if they wanna get to the toilet to take a quick look on the answers from the notes left outside),or just directly ask for the answers from friends sitting next to them.

There's actually a few more other ways of cheating in exams that I've heard about before,but i'm not so sure are they really been used or just nothing more than 'possible' ways that can be tried.Most of the ways are quite creative like using some sort of hearing aid,plug into your ears and then somehow by using some small devices,you ask for the answers from someone you count on,waiting on the other room with related books and other references on his table and done.All questions are confidently been answered and of course,thanks to the technology.Technology does make student's life better.
Yup,some students do cheat when it comes in answering exam questions.Are they the one to be blamed?I'm not so sure about it but I think-NO. These students who are cheating during exams are not the one who are at fault.

People cheat when they get a chance to do so.Means,these students are given a chance to cheat actually.Perhaps, the examiners don't really pay their attentions in the exam hall..hmmm,is that true?When they are not looking at the students or too busy doing something else like having a small talk with other fellow examiners,students are actually given the chance to do the cheating thing.
The truth is, I dont feel like it to put the blame on other people.No one should be blamed.I think, it is so not fair because as human beings, we are not perfect and never gonna be.

Time-famous for being the 'factor' that contribute to something that happened.Here, time constrain is one of the reasons on why these students have to cheat during exams.Nowadays, 24 hours are not enough.We need more than that in a day.We need extra hours.Students are undergoing this one process,known as the process of living.Means, they are doing things in lives.They are living creatures.They don't just go to classes, be at the library, read thick books,do researh and do revisions.They also do something else.To cater their needs and wants, they do part time job, hang out with friends, deal with love live, doing things that matter to their families and online( playing games, chit-chatting or browse new websites).All these are for self-satisfaction, social, business or knowledge-seeking reasons.As we can see,they are doing a lot of other things in their lives and therefore,they don't really have much time to prepare themselves for the examination.No time to attend all classes and no time to do the study and full revisions.

Students are not made of electronic components.Eventhough they are young and energetic,they are just human beings.They get tired.They need time to get enough rest.Mentally and physically.When they are tired, they can't really focus on things they are doing.We have to admit that they are living in a such hectic life.Because they are so tired, they have to cheat during the exams.Is that so?Yes, because, they need to rest instead of loading their brains with things from the text books and notes as preparation for the exams.The relationship?Hectic life+Tired+ Need to rest/relax/sleep+Don't do the revision = Fail .Therefore, to change that 'fail' to 'pass', they have to do the cheating.

The fact is,if these students get caught, they still have to pay for it.They may get suspension or have to sit for that exam again in the next semester or even worse, get expelled.They already knew that and so alert about the fact.But they are so dare to take the risk.Surprisingly,most of them are so lucky as they manage to do the cheating and never get caught.They are so,so and so lucky.

No matter what, never blame these students. They are not at fault.They cheat, so that they can pass the exams.From there, they can graduate on time and get into working life.We are not blaming these students and since they are so good at cheating plus never ever get caught, they might able to do the cheating thing in something else and help our world to be a better place.Who knows, from the cheating, they might end up becoming someone.Maybe as our next Prime Minister?

As a grown up, we are supposed to know what is right and what is wrong.I don't put the blame on these students.They know that, what they do now may results into something in the future.Since they may end up being someone by cheating, then just let them do the cheating.Therefore, we just have to keep on looking for something( not someone)to put the blame on.That's it.

What about those students who are not cheating?In my opinion, they might don't wanna be someone.Maybe they don't feel tired living in their hectic lives.Maybe they don't have to do something else in their lives.Maybe 24 hours in a day is more than enough time for them.And maybe,they are being true to themselves.No matter what is going to happen,they choose to be honest.

Well, cheating or not, it's your choice.No matter what, we never gonna blame you.

Wednesday, February 17, 2010

It's hot

Terribly hot..
It is only 9a.m in the morning,but the heat is so like 12 in the noon.Very hot and sunny!Plus,staying for a while under the sun may caused sunburned to your skin.Staying a while here means,in a minute.You'll get sunburned,just in a minute!The earth is really burning hot..
I believe that this extreme weather is due to the global warming thing.I've heard about it long before and i stil remember Al Gore was the one who really into this.He warned us earlier and he made me realised that,the earth is melting!
What can we do about it?Is there a way to stop our earth from melting and us from sweating horribly at 9a.m?Perhaps,we have to look at the reasons on why is our earth getting hotter each day and try our best to overcome it.
Can we stand in the dark during night hour?The heat from the lights that we are using are actually one of the reasons that caused this global warming.To control the extreme weather,we must stop from using lights.Sounds weird but if we think logically,yes.We must stop having "excess" lights.For example,the one we use to 'lighten' buildings( good example can be at Las Vegas).We dont really need those lights.They are actually meant to attract people to come and visit Las Vegas.I think, without the help of those lights, people will still come and visit Las Vegas.By the way,most of people there spend more time in the Hotels and Casinos,instead of outside the Hotels and Casinos.
Extreme weather in Islam means,the world is near to an end.Instead of complaining about the heat,we should actually work more on being a good Muslim.As we already knew,hell is thousands times hotter that what we are having now.We should learn something here.
My protection against this extreme weather?Stay inside as long as i can and be out only when it is necessary.That's why i always go out during night hour.One of the best way to avoid the sun.
If i have to go out under the sun, i'll make sure that i use my umbrella.The sun rays are not only make us sweat and hot,they are also not good for our skin.A direct exposure to the sun rays may caused skin cancer!
Actually, there's nothing much we can do to stop the earth from getting hotter everyday.Perhaps, what we can do is,bear with it and just live with it.

Friday, February 5, 2010

Facebook

I refused to join Facebook at the beginning.Why? Because I don't really need one.As simple as that.
Then, after a certain time of period,i thought that this Facebook thing will just gone with the wind,means, it just a temporary "in" thing that when it reached a certain time period,it will be forgotten.
I was totally wrong when I realised that, there are more and more people joined the Facebook,even our own Prime Minister!.That is more like an indicator actually to me as how popular is the Facebook to Malaysian people.
Facebook is a phenomenal.But i dont think that those in the U.S. are into this Facebook thing.It seems they are more into Twitter.I'm not so sure about it but I hardly heard people there went like ''have you checked your Facebook today?" but most that I've heard was "have you got the news from twitter?".
Now, do I have a Facebook account?Yup, I do.I've joined Facebook early last month, just to give it a try and guess what, I am addicted to it since then!.
My perception towards Facebook: Happening and very interactive!It is more like a virtual place to chat and hang out with your friends.Sounds fun right?
There are few things that captured my attention.The first one is the use of full names!.At first, I wonder, is it a must or what since most of my friends are using their full names for their Facebook.I've figured out that one.I think, it might due to the sign up process.At the beginning, you are required to fill in your full names right?No nicknames required.So,from that, all of these people,including me are using our full names!Surprisingly, we seems comfortable with it.We don't feel like to alter it by changing it back to our nicknames.Supposedly,nicknames are something that is very synonim with virtual sites.Most of us prefer not to reveal our full names in such virtual way.But Facebook managed to make us change our mind.Don't you think so?
Another one is the layout.The layout is just the same for everyone as if we are equally same in term of our taste and preferences in color, theme and setting.This is something that is really, really good.To me, i find this as something like" we are all the same, no matter who we are and what we are".A very good message from Facebook.Interesting right?

Definitely, for the time being, Facebook is the best.That is my personal opinion.Thumbs up to Facebook!